阅读下列短文根据短文中的信息完成文后表格。在标有题号的横线上，写出空缺处所填单词的正确形式。（每空一词）Whatdowereallymeanbybeingopen?Beingopenisakindofinvitationtoothersto

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阅读下列短文 根据短文中的信息完成文后表格。在标有题号的横线上，写出空缺处所填单词的正确形式。（每空一词）
What do we really mean by being open? Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in to speak and to share. It is important in letting others get to know how we think and feel. In this way we will be understood and accepted by others. If we aren’t open with others we won’t fully believe in ourselves or others.
Here are a few ways for you to be more open. First make your outside behavior the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. Second share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions. Third try to change your questions into statements(陈述) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily. For example you might say “I feel happy that you’re here ” instead of “Are you glad that you’re here?” Finally try not to say “I don’t know.” This usually means I don’t want to think about it any more.
Remember also that it is not suitable to be open with everyone in every situation. You may want to be more open with close friends but not with people you don’t know well because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you. Besides some people may not be used to too much openness. If we say everything we feel or think to them they will feel very uncomfortable at times.
In all being open is a good way for us to get on well with other people but we’d better keep the balance between being open and not being too open.

Title: Being open
Meanings of being open	【小题1】    others to come in to speak and to share. Show others     【小题2】     we think and feel. Let others ___【小题3】___ and accept us. Believe in ourselves and others by being open.
【小题4】    to be more open	Make   【小题5】   your outside behavior is the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. Try to share your    【小题6】   feelings. Make statements instead of   【小题7】 and use the first person. Try not to say “I don’t know.”
Reasons for not being too open	Someone may use your    【小题8】    to hurt you. You will make them feel very uncomfortable    【小题9】 .
Conclusion: It will     【小题10】   us get on well with others if we keep the balance between being open and not being too open.

 

Answer 1

【小题1】Invite
【小题2】how/what
【小题3】understand
【小题4】Ways
【小题5】sure
【小题6】real/true
【小题7】questions
【小题8】information
【小题9】sometimes
【小题10】make/help 解析
分 析：
这篇短文中主要谈论了交际中的一个开放问题，作者对此提出了几点建议，并提醒我们不要对人太开放。
【小题1】根据第一段Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in to speak and to share.描述 可知填Invite 邀请.
【小题2】根据第一段It is important in letting others get to know how we think and feel. 描述 可知此处指的是 向其他人展示我们的所想所感.故填:how/what 怎样/什么。
【小题3】根据第一段In this way we will be understood and accepted by others.描述，可知此处指的是，让其他人明白并接受我们。故填，understand，明白，理解。
【小题4】根据第二段Here are a few ways for you to be more open.及右栏描述，可知此处指的是如何变得更开放的方法。结合语境可知填复数名词Ways，方法。
【小题5】根据第二段First make your outside behavior the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. 描述，可知此处指的是，确保你的言行一致。故填sure，确信的，可靠的。
【小题6】根据第二段Second share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions.描述，可知尽力展示你的真实感情。结合语境及汉语提示，可知填形容词real/true，真实的。
【小题7】根据第二段Third try to change your questions into statements(陈述) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily. 描述，可知填questions，问题。
【小题8】根据第三段but not with people you don’t know well because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you.描述，可知此处指的是有人可能利用你的信息来伤害你。故填information，消息，信息。
【小题9】根据第三段If we say everything we feel or think to them they will feel very uncomfortable at times.描述，可知填sometimes，有时。
【小题10】根据最后一段描述，可知此处指的是，如果我们能在开放与不太开放之间保持好平衡，这将有助于我们友好与他人相处。结合语境可知填原形动词make/help，使得/有助于。
考点：
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点评：
本题中个别小题不能直接从文中找到答案，需要自己根据相关内容分析总结。一定要弄懂全文后再动手解答问题。书写答案时，注意首字母大写。为避免不必要的错误，只要能使用原文的就尽量使用原文回答问题，自己总结的答案注意人称和数的变化，要符合语法规则。