A．Establishyourindependenceasearlyaspossible．B．Rememberthatyourmindisyoursalone．C．Learntoworkwithyourparents．D．Identifyyourfearfactor．E．Learnhowtoavoidbeingcontrolledbyanger．F．Askyourselfifyourpare

Question

A．Establish your independence as early as possible．
B．Remember that your mind is yours alone．
C．Learn to work with your parents．
D．Identify your fear factor．
E．Learn how to avoid being controlled by anger．
F．Ask yourself if your parent is a perfectionist．
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Often a controlling parent is a perfectionist，driving you always to be the best you can and getting angry or upset over grades that are less perfect，no matter how hard you work for them，or finding faults with tasks you take on around the home．There is nothing wrong with doing a job right，but it seems like no matter how hard you work on it，it's never perfect．In other words，do you ever just receive praise from that parent，or is it always justified with a"but…"or"except…"．
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It can only be controlled if you allow it to be．Controlling behaviours are eventually the controller's attempt to meet his or her own needs．If the controlling parent demands good grades，don't do poorly．You are the strong one when you find ways to meet his or her needs and yours，without allowing them to get into your mind．They can force you to pretend to be something you are not，but they can't change who you actually are．
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Most controlling parents are simply afraid that you will fail without their intervention．Because they feel it necessary to involve themselves in your life．If you can discover what seems to calm your parents，you will make your own life much easier．For example，if a note from your teacher telling them you haven't turned in your homework will put you into trouble，do turn in the homework．It's pretty simple but really---do what your parents want you to do，and they will be less intrusive in your life．
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Some parents control their family with anger．They really lose their temper，lose all self-control，and the result is no discussion．People are afraid to voice an opinion contrary to the angry parents because they fear what will happen．This is how anger is used to control you．If you can talk to the parents，ask for the 3-minute-rule approach．Using this approach allows everyone to be heard and also provides some"cooling off"time，which can help manage conflicts．
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If you are very smart，you will study hard in school and give yourself lots of opinions for change．Even if you go to school locally，it's suggested that you try to live in the dormitories，or any place other than your parents'home．Get a job and help with your own living expenses．The sooner you get out form under the shadow of a controlling parent，the sooner the parent will recognize you"Declaration of Independence"．

Answer 1

61．F．推理判断题．根据后文Often a controlling parent is a perfectionist，driving you always to be the best you can and getting angry or upset over grades that are less perfect可知讲的是父母是一个完美主义者的结果，因此问自己如果你的父母是一个完美主义者；故选F．
62．B．推理判断题．根据后文It can only be controlled if you allow it to be．Controlling behaviours are eventually the controller's attempt to meet his or her own needs如果你允许它被控制．控制行为的最终控制器试图满足自己的需要；可知你要记住你的头脑是你的；故选B．
63．C．推理判断题．根据后文．If you can discover what seems to calm your parents，you will make your own life much easier可知我们需要学会和父母一起工作；故选C．
64．E．推理判断题．根据后文Using this approach allows everyone to be heard and also provides some"cooling off"time，which can help manage conflicts可知我们需要学习如何避免被愤怒控制；故选E．
65．A．推理判断题．根据后文The sooner you get out form under the shadow of a controlling parent，the sooner the parent will recognize you"Declaration of Independence可知我们需要学会尽早建立你的独立性；故选A．