英语翻译Manyofusspendagreatdealoftimeandenergytryingtoprovethatweareright—andothersarewrong.Manypeoplebelievethatit’stheirjobtoshowothershowtheirpositions,statements,andpointsofviewareincorrect,andthatin

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Many of us spend a great deal of time and energy trying to prove that we are right—and others are wrong.Many people believe that it’s their job to show others how their positions,statements,and points of view are incorrect,and that in doing so,the person they are correcting is going to somehow appreciate it,or at least learn something.Wrong.
Think about it.Have you ever been corrected by someone and said to him,“Thank you so much for showing me that I’m wrong and you’re right.Or,has anyone you know ever thanked you when you corrected then,or made yourself “right” at their expense?Of course not.The truth is,all of us hate to be corrected.Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest desires of the human heart.And those who learn to listen are the most loved and respected.Those who are in the habit of correcting others are often resented and avoided.
A wonderful way for becoming more peaceful and loving is to practice allowing others the joy of being of right—give them the glory.Stop correcting.When someone says,“I really feel it’s important to…”,rather than jumping in and saying,“No,it’s more important to…”,simply let it go and allow their statement to stand.The people in your life will become less defensive and more loving.They will appreciate you more than you could ever have dreamed.You’ll discover the joy of joining in and witnessing other people’s happiness,which is far more rewarding than a battle of egos.Starting today,let others be“right”,most of the time?

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Many of us spend a great deal of time and energy trying to prove that we are right—and others are wrong.Many people believe that it’s their job to show others how their positions,statements,and points of view are incorrect,and that in doing so,the person they are correcting is going to somehow appreciate it,or at least learn something.Wrong.
我们之中的大多数人花费很长时间试图证明我们是正确的,其他人是错误的.很多人视证明其他人的理论观点是错误的为他们的工作,在这种情况下,那些对的人会设法领会一些东西,至少学到一些东西.
Think about it.Have you ever been corrected by someone and said to him,“Thank you so much for showing me that I’m wrong and you’re right.Or,has anyone you know ever thanked you when you corrected then,or made yourself “right” at their expense?Of course not.The truth is,all of us hate to be corrected.Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest desires of the human heart.And those who learn to listen are the most loved and respected.Those who are in the habit of correcting others are often resented and avoided.
想一想,你曾经被某人纠正错误后会对他说“谢谢你证明给我看你是正确的,我是错误的.”或者,你所知道的某人曾经干些你纠正了他的错误吗?或者应为你的正确,他们付出了代价?当然不可能了.道理就是,所有人讨厌被纠正,被别人细心听取是人们心中最大愿望.那些学着去听取别人一级的人是最值得尊敬的和最可爱的.那些习惯纠正别人的人经常遭到厌恶.
A wonderful way for becoming more peaceful and loving is to practice allowing others the joy of being of right—give them the glory.Stop correcting.When someone says,“I really feel it’s important to…”,rather than jumping in and saying,“No,it’s more important to…”,simply let it go and allow their statement to stand.The people in your life will become less defensive and more loving.They will appreciate you more than you could ever have dreamed.You’ll discover the joy of joining in and witnessing other people’s happiness,which is far more rewarding than a battle of egos.Starting today,let others be“right”,most of the time?
一个变得安静和有爱心的有效方法是允许别人正确.当有人说“我真的感觉做某事时是重要的时候...”就让他们的想法成立吧.那些生活在你周围的人会渐渐丢下防御 变得更加充满爱.他们会超乎你想象的感激你,你将会发现感受和见证他人的快乐,那些比自我战争更有价值和回报.从现在开始,让别人的想法在大多数时候都变得“正确”.