Inordertoimproverelationshipwithothersyouneedtobeawareofseveralsensiblewaystocomplain.1youneedtobespecific.Don’tsay“Boydidyou2likeafoolattheparty?”Instead

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In order to improve relationship with others you need to be aware of several sensible ways to complain. 1 you need to be specific. Don’t say “Boy did you 2 like a fool at the party?” Instead say “You embarrassed me by getting 3 and loud and telling offensive jokes to my parents.” Secondly stick to the present. Don’t mention old offences from last month or last year. By doing this you 4 attention from the problem at hand. Moreover 5 you complain don’t add insults. If you start calling the other person names that will 6 create anger and hurt any chance of getting the person to really 7 you. A last point to remember is to complain privately. Never criticize the other person in front of friends parents children or anyone else for that 8 . Criticizing in front of a third party has the same effect as 9 . This shames the person being criticized and makes it very likely that the person will want to attack you orally rather than listen to you.Sensible ways to Complain:Be specificStick to the present 10 Complain privately

1. A ． To start with B ． Frankly speaking C ． Anyway D ． Needless to say

2. A ． conduct B ． play C ． do D ． act

3. A ． upset B ． bored C ． delighted D ． drunk

4. A ． take away B ． set off C ． draw up D ． catch up

5. A ． before B ． after C ． when D ． unless

6. A ． even B ． never C ． only D ． still

7. A ． listen to B ． work for C ． look after D ． wait on

8. A ． time B ． matter C ． person D ． party

9. A ． jokes B ． insults C ． criticism D ． embarrassment

10. A ． Don’t add insults B ． Don’t mention old offenses

C ． Don’t lose temper D ． Don’t tell embarrassing jokes

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